About Love

This is something very personal to share today. It is what I found out about love. And this is – obviously – what I think, in the end, love is.

Sometimes, we get so attached to people, to how things work out, to what we think we should do in order to – I don’t know – let’s say fit in, that we don’t even realize what happens around us.

It truly happens around us. We listen to the spoken word as if our life depends on it, forgetting completely, that it is not about the word, but about the heart.

And then, we limit ourselves, to the boundaries, that were set by other people’s minds. So let me ask you one question: is that “the ultimate” truth? Working with my clients, so many times I just see them setting their boundaries because they don’t want to get hurt because they think they do something right… but what do they really want?

I think what we all really want is love. True love. And I also experienced just lately, that by simply doing the mentioned above, I limit myself to not being full, to not experience and embrace who I am and what my heart is longing for.

So I stopped. I stopped limit myself by what „the rules“ say, what the mind says, what other people told me… and I fully embrace who I am and what I feel, I give myself the permission to live it. Love is a gift, and I can give it to everyone, it is not getting less, in fact, it grows if I give it away.

What I found out by this: it is setting me free. I stop being limited in the experience of my own life by the boundaries of other people. I can give love as a present, always, and it is not up to me how they react to it. That does not take away the worth of my love.

I like to have an example here: if I give you a Ferrari as a present, does my gift lose it’s worth if you decide to destroy it with a baseball bet? Actually, it looses the worth for you, for me, it remains the same.

Same with love: if I give you love and you do not appreciate, that does not diminish the worth of the present I gave you.

I am free. I am independent of how other people react to me. I fully embrace life and love and I freely give it. That makes my love grow, and my heart full. Everything else is an illusion.

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