Dating – horror: how to find out if he is married?

OMG – this is really one of the most unfortunate things that might happen. You date that amazing guy and you two get along very well, and you secretly think that this time, that might be the one. And every day, you are hoping and waiting for him to take the next step, to get more intimate (not by having sex, but by moving on to the next level) like you get the keys to his home, you find your picture where he can always look at it… something that makes you aware that this is more. 

But it does not happen, and you don’t understand why. Well ladies, if everything is going absolutely well and nothing of this is happening, if you are not the jealous type, but your gut feeling is telling you that something is maybe wrong, then it is likely that something is wrong. 

Can you come to visit him at any time? Is he available for intimacy at his place? Do you have these bedtime talks? Does it feel like he is completely open with you? These are good signs. The opposite is maybe not so fortunate. You might be attentive or – ask him. Be direct. Look at the reaction. It is your life, you do not want to waste your precious time. 

At the same time, do not blame an innocent guy to fast for him just being a little slow. Open communications in relationships are very important. If you feel insecure about his behaviors, it is always a good idea to talk about them. This might help you to move forward and establish a new trust between the two of you. 

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Lots of love,
Tina