Ghosting – a new phenomenon in Dating 2.0

Did you ever hear about ghosting? No? Honestly, I only found out about its existence some years ago, not too long though. Maybe it did not exist before, or at least not in the same way, as these multiple forms of communication simply did not exist by then.

So what is ghosting? It means that you cannot get a hold of the person you had some nice dates with, and suddenly, out of the blue without anything happening, they disappear. A complete shut off all communications, including social media. Most certainly, you got blocked, or it is handled in a way that you cannot see if your messages arrived or were read. It is as if this person does not exist anymore. 

What can we do about it? Well, unfortunately, there is not too much to do about it, because if someone does not read or answer your messages and calls, no matter what you try, then most certainly they will not be delighted if you appear on their doormat, asking to be let in. 

It is hard, I get that. And especially women get left behind with 1000 questions, yet not to be answered. So there is one thing women need to hear and need to understand: if he refuses communication, that simply means that he does not want to communicate. That simply means that he is not willing to answer your questions, and he will not do so, even if you confront him, he will withdraw himself from the communication. 

So the truth is: you have your answer: he does not want you. Read that again. He does not want you to be part of his life, if he would wish so, he would not treat you like this. Believe him. Take yourself out of the puzzle and move on. Save your energy and thoughts for someone, who deserves them and find yourself the true love of your life.

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Lots of love, 

Tina