Help! I closed my heart to love and I don’t know how to reopen it!

That is a tricky one, and it happened to so many of us, in a way that we often don’t even know about it. Outch, that hurts. This is how it starts. But in order to not face the problem, we hide it, in a place. Why? Because at this time it is simply to heavy to face it. And we hide it away and forget, it was there in the first place. But what then? We forget about it.

But live as such is tricky as well. As soon as you are ready to face the pain, it will trigger you again and again, and it’s getting worse every time you dare to not look at it. Life wants to get rid of the pain, it is no longer needed. It’s like you touch a rose, and a part of the sting gets stuck in your skin. You might not even notice it in the first place, but after a while, it starts to swell, pus might come out of the little wound, that once was not even visible, but now gets infected. Obviously, you would take care of that wound, woundn’t you?

Just the same thing happens to the wounds that were added to our soul. They start to swell, to produce pus, metaphorically. And we can feel the pain, the triggers… but instead of taking a look inside, to where the pain get stuck, we tend to project it onto the people that triggered it within us. Why? Because it hurts so much to look inside. Unfortunately, this is the only way to get rid of it and free to give and recieve love again.

We have to take care about our pain, we have to remove the sting. We have to forgive the ones who hurt us – not because of them, but because of ourselves. Because not forgiving is like removing the pus, taking care of the wound, but leaving the sting within. Only a wound that is perfectly clean can properly heal. Do you agree? The same happens with the wounds in our souls: only if we „clean out all the mess“, they will heal and we can leave the past pain behind and look into a future that is directed by the heart, and not by the fear of pain, that might even be provoked when someone – equally as with the skin – strokes the part within us, that is not healed.

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