I don’t want to be single anymore…

I don’t want to be single anymore…

It is horrible, I get it. These Saturday nights at home, when all your girls are out or at home with their hubbies or boyfriends, or fiances, and you still didn’t find the right one, the one for the beautiful loving relationship you always wished for, you always desired. 

You know one thing: I don’t want to be alone anymore. But you don’t know what to do about it. Because whatever you do in your relationships, at some point they end and you find yourself in the same situation again and again. And don’t even know what went wrong. 

So there is a quick heads up for you: first of all, let me tell you – you are not alone. There are a lot of amazing women out there, sharing the same story. And all of them have kind of common things they should take care of before heading into the next romance: 

1. Getting rid of fears. Yes, fears. Like – what if I am not smart enough, what if I am too so smart? What if I am not pretty enough? What if I am too old, too young – or in other words – what if I am simply not the one he would want to love? 
2. Establish self-confidence – because otherwise, you might end up in a relationship, that is not good for you, or worse, it might even be abusive. But you cannot get out. 
3. Learn to be you and trust in yourself fully, because otherwise, you will never be able to find your own way, the one way that makes you happy and will let you embrace your potential

So what should you do? Use the time as a single and get yourself the life, that you ever dreamed of. The life, that you deserve. The life, that makes you happy. Get ready for the life that you want, and for the relationships that you deserve. 

Once you are ready, it will find you. 

#loveofyourlife #love #❤️