Is this my Mr. Right, or is it better to leave him right away?

How great would that be? You meet that guy, and maybe right away, at your first date, you know if this is your Mr. Right, the one that will stay with your forever, or if he is not, that it is better to leave him right away. 

In some cases, this happens to be true. Whether you call it chemicals, or connection, or energy, waves… it does not matter. As a matter of fact, if there is no attraction of any kind, you know immediately: this is not the one. But in other cases, we feel attracted, in fact, we feel a high pull towards that person and we wish to spend time with them. Just to find out after some month or years – that it was wrong. Or worse, we land in one of these on-off relationships that tend to suck all our energy. 

Now the greatest thing would be if I could tell you: yes if you do XYZ, you will know for sure if this is the one for you. Or at least, this is not the one for me. But this is not what I can tell you. 

Fortunately, I can tell you something else, which I find to be equally important: we never know, if the person we meet is the right one, the one person we will commit and stick with for the rest of our lives. But if we feel attraction, then we can be sure about one thing: it is the right person for us now. 

Relationships usually tend to include some learning for both partners, and no one can foresee in which direction you two will evolve, how much you have and want to learn. Maybe it is the same for you, and you will stay together after all. Or maybe not, maybe your ways part after some time together. 

So there is one thing that you can do: Enjoy the time you have together. Make it the best possible, make sure to create memories so if your ways need to part, being reminded will make you smile. 

How great would that be? You meet that guy, and maybe right away, at your first date, you know if this is your Mr. Right, the one that will stay with your forever, or if he is not, that it is better to leave him right away. 

In some cases, this happens to be true. Whether you call it chemicals, or connection, or energy, waves… it does not matter. As a matter of fact, if there is no attraction of any kind, you know immediately: this is not the one. But in other cases, we feel attracted, in fact, we feel a high pull towards that person and we wish to spend time with them. Just to find out after some month or years – that it was wrong. Or worse, we land in one of these on-off relationships that tend to suck all our energy. 

Now the greatest thing would be if I could tell you: yes if you do XYZ, you will know for sure if this is the one for you. Or at least, this is not the one for me. But this is not what I can tell you. 

Fortunately, I can tell you something else, which I find to be equally important: we never know, if the person we meet is the right one, the one person we will commit and stick with for the rest of our lives. But if we feel attraction, then we can be sure about one thing: it is the right person for us now. 

Relationships usually tend to include some learning for both partners, and no one can foresee in which direction you two will evolve, how much you have and want to learn. Maybe it is the same for you, and you will stay together after all. Or maybe not, maybe your ways part after some time together. 

So there is one thing that you can do: Enjoy the time you have together. Make it the best possible, make sure to create memories so if your ways need to part, being reminded will make you smile. 

Is this my Mr. Right, or is it better to leave him right away? 

How great would that be? You meet that guy, and maybe right away, at your first date, you know if this is your Mr. Right, the one that will stay with your forever, or if he is not, that it is better to leave him right away. 

In some cases, this happens to be true. Whether you call it chemicals, or connection, or energy, waves… it does not matter. As a matter of fact, if there is no attraction of any kind, you know immediately: this is not the one. But in other cases, we feel attracted, in fact, we feel a high pull towards that person and we wish to spend time with them. Just to find out after some month or years – that it was wrong. Or worse, we land in one of these on-off relationships that tend to suck all our energy. 

Now the greatest thing would be if I could tell you: yes if you do XYZ, you will know for sure if this is the one for you. Or at least, this is not the one for me. But this is not what I can tell you. 

Fortunately, I can tell you something else, which I find to be equally important: we never know, if the person we meet is the right one, the one person we will commit and stick with for the rest of our lives. But if we feel attraction, then we can be sure about one thing: it is the right person for us now. 

Relationships usually tend to include some learning for both partners, and no one can foresee in which direction you two will evolve, how much you have and want to learn. Maybe it is the same for you, and you will stay together after all. Or maybe not, maybe your ways part after some time together. 

So there is one thing that you can do: Enjoy the time you have together. Make it the best possible, make sure to create memories so if your ways need to part, being reminded will make you smile.