It’s all about love

Love is what makes the world turn round… but we do tend to misinterpret love to need to get more of it, to get it from the right person in the right moment… and if we don’t get it? We are disappointed.

That is quite a bit of a negative spiral because we do not have a say in receiving love when we need it the most, in fact, most of the time, when we need it most, we tend to not get it. But not due to the fact that we really don’t get it, but mostly because we don’t get it from the person we would wish it from.

Alright, can you see it yourself? This is going to cause loads of complications. Let’s bring a bit of light into the darkness:

First of all, we want to take a step back and look at ourselves: It is obvious, getting love is wonderful, and getting it from the right person is even more, but what if who we imagine could be the right person for us does not think we are the right person for them? Unhappy ever after? It does not sound too good.

What if – there would be a way of independence, a place where we could receive freely what is given to us and not wait for what is not? What if – we could just say – ok, then not from you. But maybe from you. Or sure from the other one. Even though in this one case, it is us who might not feel the need of giving it back. But even though we might not feel we want to return what is given to us, is it worthless, just because we do not feel equally for them?

I bet it’s not. So why not let us stop to run and beg for love that is not freely given to us but appreciate what we receive instead. And be happy, and blooming. Let’s see that at any moment, everything we need is already with us and everything else is just one step ahead.

Let’s step out of needing someone to fulfill our needs but receive what we get and appreciate that more. Let’s start to focus on what we have and go on with fulfilling our own needs. And the more we take care of ourselves, the happier we will be. The happier we are, the less we need. The less we need, the more we can enjoy what we have. Then, when we already have what we need, what we deserve will come…

Do you need help?

Lots of Love!
Tina