My boyfriend has no time, what can I do about it?

Isn’t that annoying? You have met this awesome person, and he seems to love you. And you love him too. He does call you, text you once in a while, but just randomly has time. 

So don’t get me wrong, in this article, I am not talking about the weird situation when he tells you that he has no time to text you, that is a completely different kind of a story. He is texting, he is calling. And you have a feeling that he is truly interested, but still, it does not seem to be enough. Because although he gives you attention, maybe sends you a gift here and there, there is one thing that he does not seem to have: time. 

So here is the thing: even though we are truly committed to a relationship and to a person, and even though we love that person, that does not mean that our values match. Or it does not mean that one of the two people involved is ready to put the relationship as his highest value. See, we all live our lives in phases. We are babies, toddlers, kids, and teens. Young adults. This is the time when we don’t want any commitments, we want to be free, we want to try out things before – especially important for men – create something. A business, a job, success if you want. Then it is time for marriage, commitment, and kids before we go into retirement. 

And unfortunately, there is no time-stamp to this. Let’s just say it differently: when one of you is not ready, you are not ready. If both of you are committed, but one of you has different values – for the time being, or just simply having different values, then you have to figure out if you can make it work or you can’t. 

My advice on this: as long as you feel good with each other, and you can handle the differences, give it a try. If the values don’t match at all, maybe you need to consider letting go. Not because you don’t love, but because you love yourself more. 

And believe that the right one is still waiting for you, maybe behind the next corner.

#loveofyourlife #love #❤️